The bible says “He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from The Lord”. Notice he is suppose to “find”… I don’t think too many men are even looking!

As I have mentioned before, there are too many women doing this thing called life, alone and weary. We can’t completely blame the men alone, we have enabled them and made it too easy for them to have what they want and never fully walk in their responsability. Trust me, I fully understand the need to prove we are good women, but the perks that come with a good woman come with a commitment! The truth is, as long as we settle for less then we deserve, men will never strive to be better.

i truly believe because women as a whole don’t see their value, men are not looking or even holding out for a respectable and good woman. It is unfortunate because that in itself, backfires on men because they never see their full worth and value if they don’t find that “good woman”. There is a divine principle that God has put in place for couples, and that is HIS favor! When a man finds a “good woman”, God’s favor falls on them both! With God’s favor, there is health, prosperity, peace and vision for a family to make a difference.

I encourage all women to be strong and allow God to undergird you as you wait on the right man to come into your life. Men, do yourself a favor, and search. Listen and really take the time to get to know a woman, a good woman. The world has valued the wrong things… Sex, looks, outward everything. What makes a woman good is on the inside… Compassion, confidence, love, kindness, encouragement, gentleness, etc. Men, how many of those women have you overlooked on your journey? We must stop using the world as a reference and live what we believe! Ladies it’s time to be that example of “good” and be that diamond a man is searching for. Men, want more for yourself then the physical… Your looks will fade and so will hers, what you have left is the substance for greatness and God’s favor is what guides you in your journey together.